Destinations have their moment. A few years ago, it was Italy. Then, we couldn’t get enough of Japan. Now, it’s not just your algorithm: yes, you are actually seeing lots of African safaris on your friends’ Insta feeds. That’s where I’m headed this month – to the place that changed my life.

Back to Basics

There is something about Africa that whether or not your heart is open to it, it changes your perspective. Yes, the market is crashing, or maybe your job isn’t optimal, or your relationship isn’t in the best place. These are all real struggles that the privileges of life give us. However, when you get to Africa, you realize that aspects magnified in the everyday context, are not so important in the whole scope of life.

Through the people, the culture and a front row seat to the wild, Africa is about getting perspective again. It’s here that you’ll see people who live simply, but have more happiness in their hearts than a billionaire. There’s a humility in how much you depend on and respect your ranger, whose job is not just to take you on a game drive, but protect your life in the wild. At some point, you realize how small we really are in this vast world. It’s that realization that I think makes you braver, stronger, and more grounded. For many, safari and Africa are life-changing. And when you travel right, that’s exactly what it should be.

A Look Back on 12 Years in Africa

My first African safari was over 12 years ago. I went in thinking that I was just going to see some cool animals and stay in a luxury lodge. Of course, that was the case, and in fact, I saw a pangolin on my first safari. A sighting of this animal is like finding a 20 carat diamond in the bush. In other words, it’s extremely rare, and incredibly lucky.

However, that wasn’t what changed my life on this trip. One night, I was offered the chance to “sleep out” alone, 30 minutes away from our camp. Essentially, you have a bed with no walls that’s set up on a platform in the middle of the bush. Of course, you’re not in lion country, but animals are roaming in the completely pitch-black Savannah around you. Your bathroom is about 30 yards away, and also open air.

Yes, it was scary AF, and it’s doubtful I would ever do this again. However, it was this night that may have been my bravest moment — alone, looking out in the vast darkness. I spoke words out loud that I had otherwise been terrified to say for a long time, but I knew were true in my heart. I was in a bad relationship, and the thought of staying in it was scarier than being on that platform alone. That acknowledgment was a turning point for me. Of course, there’s another component to this story, which will make it into the memoirs one day. I had met someone who gave me a glimpse of what love could feel like — though not meant to be lasting. And when you have a glance at what love could be, it’s impossible to turn back.

What a Difference 12 Years Makes

Since then, I have been back to Africa over a dozen times, which still has my heart. I have summited Kilimanjaro, taught in schools in Tanzania, donated supplies in Sierra Leone, and gorilla trekked in Rwanda. There have been so many life-changing moments that have made me who I am today. I think back to that girl, who was so frightened on that platform in Africa, a dozen years ago. I feel so grateful that it all worked out, more than my wildest dreams.

A High Bar Is Set

My last safari was with my friend, Ubah, and we had an epic time in South Africa at Singita, my favorite lodge in the world. We laughed over lunch about how everyone was on their honeymoon and we were on a girls’ trip. As two successful, strong women, we knew how lucky we were to be able to take a trip like this. We joked, though, that the next time we returned to Africa, should be with significant others (who are not each other). But I will say: Ubah sets the bar high for any travel companion.

So, fast forward, and here I am today, ready to return to Africa. In the next few weeks I’ll be on maybe the most luxurious and special trip of my life, which says a lot. Will this be as life-changing as my other trips? Only time will tell, but my heart is open, as it always is in Africa.

Wishing you the start of a beautiful, life-changing spring.

All the best,

Christine Drinan, Founder

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